My Child Talks a Lot but Doesn't Listen — What’s Going On?
“He talks constantly… but never seems to notice when someone else wants to speak.”
“She doesn’t ask any questions back.”
It’s easy to assume a talkative child is a confident communicator.
But that’s not always the case.
❓ When Talking Isn’t Listening
Some kids are very verbal—but not very interactive.
They may:
- Monologue about their interests
- Ignore cues that others want to speak
- Change the topic abruptly
- Rarely ask follow-up questions
This isn’t rudeness.
It’s often a sign of pragmatic language delay or ADHD-related impulsivity.
🔍 Why This Happens
- They haven’t practiced conversation as a shared activity
- They struggle to notice social signals
- They feel anxious and “fill the space”
- They’ve learned that talking gets adult attention—even if it’s one-way
💬 How Listening Can Be Taught
Children need to:
- Experience give-and-take talk
- Practice asking, not just telling
- Learn to notice others’ reactions
Dubu PingPong helps guide this learning through:
- Turn-taking challenges
- Empathy-based prompts
- “Oops” moments that allow for social repair
🌱 Help your child become a conversation partner—not just a speaker.
👉 [Practice together with Dubu PingPong – It’s free to begin]https://en.dubupingpong.com
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